My children walk this world without me. I as well walk this world without them. We are Lost, and looking for each other. The agony and loss that this separation creates is undefinable, it cannot be put into words. I think we all can agree that the situation itself has been created, however why is the question correct?

I will be the first to tell you that I am not a perfect person. I am far from it. I have done things that I wish I could take back (that have nothing to do with my children). This doesn’t change anything. This doesn’t change the the fact that I was and still am a loving Father. This doesn’t change the fact that I owe nothing to the woman that bore my seed. I will also be the first to tell you that I was a Father, and still wish to be. My wishes have been denied, simply because I am a Man. I have proven my worth as a Parent, for the last five years. It is only when a woman has decided that I am unworthy, that I am not allowed to be a part of my childrens life.

Do you people understand what happens when you create a Lost Man/Child? Look torwards the ghettos for your answer Ladies and Gents. Look to the policies and practices that cause it. Look at your paycheck, and the taxes that are taken out of it. In the end some of it pays for a situation that you may very well end up in sometime in the future. Unless you are a woman that is and then you will end up in it anyway!

Women are sick and a disease unto themselves, personally I think that many of them need help that I cannot, and if I could, will not give. I have tried to help them, for years and they refuse. They would rather wallow in their misery, and blame either me or Men, or life in general than to stand up on their own two feet and accept the fact that they are wrong or at least made a mistake. That’s rather independent of them to do so.

In the end, I am still Lost, and so are my Sons. This isn’t entirely womens, or her fault. However the choice itself was hers, and it still is to reunite me with my children. It is entirely upon a womans choice to either deny or allow you time with your children, and in turn this is what creates the problem.