Lost
My children walk this world without me. I as well walk this world without them. We are Lost, and looking for each other. The agony and loss that this separation creates is undefinable, it cannot be put into words. I think we all can agree that the situation itself has been created, however why is the question correct?
I will be the first to tell you that I am not a perfect person. I am far from it. I have done things that I wish I could take back (that have nothing to do with my children). This doesn’t change anything. This doesn’t change the the fact that I was and still am a loving Father. This doesn’t change the fact that I owe nothing to the woman that bore my seed. I will also be the first to tell you that I was a Father, and still wish to be. My wishes have been denied, simply because I am a Man. I have proven my worth as a Parent, for the last five years. It is only when a woman has decided that I am unworthy, that I am not allowed to be a part of my childrens life.
Do you people understand what happens when you create a Lost Man/Child? Look torwards the ghettos for your answer Ladies and Gents. Look to the policies and practices that cause it. Look at your paycheck, and the taxes that are taken out of it. In the end some of it pays for a situation that you may very well end up in sometime in the future. Unless you are a woman that is and then you will end up in it anyway! 
Women are sick and a disease unto themselves, personally I think that many of them need help that I cannot, and if I could, will not give. I have tried to help them, for years and they refuse. They would rather wallow in their misery, and blame either me or Men, or life in general than to stand up on their own two feet and accept the fact that they are wrong or at least made a mistake. That’s rather independent of them to do so.
In the end, I am still Lost, and so are my Sons. This isn’t entirely womens, or her fault. However the choice itself was hers, and it still is to reunite me with my children. It is entirely upon a womans choice to either deny or allow you time with your children, and in turn this is what creates the problem.
October 14th, 2007 at 12:50 am
What were the cirumstances which led to your children being taken away from you? I gather that you and your partner broke up and she moved away? What made her decide to push you out of their lives completely? Is there a valid reason for this?
I don’t agree with women that cut off ties between children and their father when there is no good reason to. In very rare cases it is right for her to do so, say if the father was violent towards her and the children in the past, it is her responsibility to protect the children from him. But every single case is different.
October 15th, 2007 at 10:44 pm
While I will post my objections in public. The reasons why I will only post in private. You ask for some some very personal and specific things Luka. If you truely wish to know, PM me on the forums. However, I will say that I am not a violent, or unreasonable Man. I will also say that, I have never hurt my children in the mind or body. I do hope you have read the rest of this small blog.
-Strength and Honor-
October 16th, 2007 at 9:18 am
Of course, my apologies, I am asking a very personal question and I should have been less…hmmm… rude?
I do wish to know because of course I am interested in how such situations occur from a man’s perspective. You know (or at least I hope you know) that I only ask such things for the purpose of learning more about the situation. I am not nosy, nor will I use the information to attack you.
I will send you a PM, but even in private if you do not wish to tell me, that is fine, I will respect your choice.
I have read your blog posts and I can begin to understand why some men think of women (and relationships, children, marriage and so on) as they do.
October 18th, 2007 at 3:13 am
Rest well, fellow man.
I am just curious and I apologise if this comes across as overly personal - Why would your ex want to do such a thing?
You dont have to answer me. I just wonder, why destroy the love that was built up by numerous years?
October 18th, 2007 at 8:15 am
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October 18th, 2007 at 8:03 pm
Because women lie and betray with the ease of serpants.
October 19th, 2007 at 12:51 am
Rest well, fellow man.
I am just curious and I apologise if this comes across as overly personal - Why would your ex want to do such a thing?
You dont have to answer me. I just wonder, why destroy the love that was built up by numerous years?
Because to many women, no matter how much they say so, Love is nothing more than a word. A means to an end. This is what we have become, and this is what we will be, until we decide differently.
Like Luka, PM me if you want to know the details, on this I will not post in public.
October 20th, 2007 at 9:29 pm
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October 25th, 2007 at 9:46 pm
Abaddon. I am sorry for your state. Mainly for the state which would allow you to see all of this as the fault of the feminists or the women of the world. I know women can be evil. So can men. To make a statement like, “to many women, no matter how much they say so, love is nothing more than a word,” is true, but only half of the story. Many a man knows nothing about love.
I see others have wondered why you are not allowed to see your children. I don’t know where you live. I believe that in the United States that there are laws that protect fathers from losing their rights unduly. Still, women run off and hide away, keeping the children isolated. I even knew a woman whose estranged husband’s mother ran off with their baby. The police would do nothing about it. She never saw her son again. Although, she did hear from the State of Idaho many years later that the woman was receiving assistance and that my friend would have to reimburse the state for it. Did the State get her child back for her? Nope. Now you tell me how that was a man/woman issue? Feminism at it’s worst?
October 26th, 2007 at 7:30 am
Abaddon. I would like to talk with you in private. Please email me.
November 5th, 2007 at 8:06 pm
Teri if that had been a man who ran off with the baby there would have been a national manhunt. The world would seek justice for some cunt.
November 9th, 2007 at 12:50 am
To all:
This is a forum for debate and discussion of Mens view. This doesn’t mean that it is a hate forum.
Billy while I appreciate your comments and they do have quite a bit of validation, tone your language down. Women aren’t cunts, much like we aren’t pigs, rapists, pedophiles ect ect .
-Strength and Honor-