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Hypocrisy

April 18th, 2008 April 18th, 2008
Posted in Male Double Standards, Misandry in Society, Political, Uncategorized
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Women in their ignorance and hubris have forgotten many things about both Men and themselves. They forget in essence what they are and what our purpose is. They would much rather ignore that elephant in the living room than come to grips with the questions and answers that they themselves have raised within the past 40 years.

For the most part they only consider themselves, (it is their nature I think) and in doing so that’s how they perceive us. They look upon us as inferior beings, sexually depraved monsters, ignorant cavemen, sperm donors, deficient parents, animals, idiots, you name it I have heard, seen and experienced it firsthand.

In experiencing this my own perceptions have changed as well. This I think is very simply cause and effect. All one has to do is read. For example, case in point; it is considered well enough for a woman to leave a man with “her” children. Leave him to rot in a ditch and charge him for the trouble. God forbid that he falls behind on those payments in the ditch. He might be arrested and thrown in a place that actually feeds, clothes, and bathes him, charged for that and then charged for the time that he was in there, because he didn’t “support” his “children” (or the state that threw him in there in the first place). When he gets out (if he does) he will be thrown directly back into gaol for his “contempt” which equals his “crimes of debt”.

He will be scorned, cast out and refused state or federal funding of almost any sort. He will be charged for everything that he does (rent, utilities, food, ectera, ectera) and all the while ridiculed and taxed for it. He will be called a deadbeat and a loser. His loss will never be recognized except on a singular level with his peers. It will be considered by the whole of society to be his “responsibility”, not his loss. He will never be recognized as a parent except by those that he knows.

All the while we hear women, feminists, the media, society and any other ignorant parasite that has enough time to do so harp on and on about how Men are failing, irresponsible, dangerous and untrustworthy. How we are the ones that are solely responsible for this situation that has presented itself.

Now shall we journey to the other side of the page/coin? Do we even have to (Men that is)? I think we should for the sake of “equality”.

It is now legal in almost every state of this Union for a woman to abandon her child at these places within 30 days of her giving birth; A post office, a police station, or a fire station.

It is now legal for a woman to have an abortion at almost any stage of her pregnancy without the fathers consent to do so.

It is now legal for a woman to give up a child for adoption without the knowledge or consent of the father. Even with the advent of DNA technology, which I might add is used more often in criminal proceedings than actually proving or encouraging fatherhood (at least in my view).

It is now legal in quite a few states for a woman to charge a Man to pay for a child that is not his at all. Apparently we are a “default” settlement.

It is now legal for a woman that earns 50,000 $ a year to charge a Man that earns 25,000 $ a year “child support.

I am sure there are more than several other examples of feminist/gynocentric hypocrisy. List them if you like, however all I ask is that you look upon what I have shown you and cast your own judgement.

How laughable this all really is if it wasn’t so serious I suppose. Women constantly wonder why Men are so “commitment-phobic”. I just wonder why they even bother to think at all.

-Strength and Honor-

Slavery

August 25th, 2007 August 25th, 2007
Posted in Family Court bias, Male Double Standards, Media Bias, Mens Rights Activism, Misandry in Society
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Perhaps, one of the most subtle yet destructive infringements upon human rights is in my view the Child Support Crusade.  It leads to the destruction of Men, families, and it encourages the corruption and decay, that rips and tears at the seams of the fabric of society. 

     As with all things, it started off with good intentions, as we all know, good intentions have paved the road to my home.  Men (according to women) were not “supporting” ”their” children.  Of course a system would be needed to ”force” Men to support them.  As with many systems before this one, force would be required.  Why would it be required? You tell me, I have formed several of my own opinions on why this is.

    At first it was just a little push, telling Men to take “responsibility” for “their” children.  Then like all regimes will, the little push became a shove.  Telling Men that they have to “pay” for “their” children or ”else”.  The shove of course, became a clenched fist, full of anger.  Men were not responding to these tactics as they were supposed to. It appears that Men didn’t like to be treated as slaves, or serfs for children that even then they had no GUARANTEED right to. It appeared that more draconian tactics would be needed to “force” Men to pay. So now we have entire federal and state databases that account for the wearabouts of Men that have “children” in this god-forsaken hellhole we call america (if you are male, working class and “decide” to have children). The state and federal government can and will imprison you for “debt”, take away your “privilege” to drive on roads that you pay for with your taxes, revoke your ability to leave the country (something I plan on in the next decade or so), ect ect. They will also brand you as a “deadbeat” father, make lists and post them on buses, post offices, and make you a social pariah.

Sounds pretty systematic doesn’t it? Sounds familiar doesn’t it? Remember the Jews in National Socialist germany? They were forced to wear stars of David to identify them.

Sounds pretty similar to the posters in Southern America stating “Lost Nigger, ran away from a WHIPPING THAT HE DESERVED. If found contact Office of Slave Repatriation Division Montgomery, Alamaba.

In Roman times, slaves had to wear a band around their neck proclaiming their status as well. Nowadays we just get a garnishment from our paycheck and if we don’t pay, a warning and punishment. Loss of “privileges” that we as Men pay much more for then women ever have or ever will in my view.

What women fail to comprehend, and personally I think this is biological myself, is that for every ACTION there is an equal and opposite REACTION. Women know what happens during sex, and in my view women have BY FAR much more options in PREVENTING the CONSEQUENCES of their ACTIONS than Men do. Women also know that they are they ones that have to bear the physical brunt of reproduction. Women are cogent of the consequences and hold all of the choices in doing so. So why are Men held responsible? The same reason why women are held in comtempt by many Men. They refuse to accept responsibility for something that they have almost COMPLETE control over. They then abdicate and force responsibility onto the man in various ways. God forbid they get a job or actually try to be a real mother. See I know what a real mother is because I actually HAD one, and a FATHER as well. When I came home from school my mother was THERE. Not at some bullshit dead-end 9-5 job at Subway. My brother and I weren’t pawned off at some state “approved” facility with a bunch of other kids either. My mother and father taught me the importance of FAMILY, of TRUST, of HONOR to name a few things. They showed me how synergy works within a unit of people that actually LOVE one another.

I am so TIRED and DISGUSTED of hearing about how single mothers are “doing it all”, of how the are so “empowered” (a word that needs to be destroyed when placed in context of women) and then in the same paragraph bemoaning their state in life, and how Men DID IT ALL TO THEM and how its ALL THEIR FAULT! What a joke and fine example of Orwellian doublethink you are. Pity or awe is the last thing that you will recieve from me. I AM a Paterfamilias. I am a living example of many Men that NEEDED to be a part of their childrens lives and provided not only money (the only thing that women seem to be concerned about) but love, trust and a mentor. A FATHER. I am also the result, the CONSEQUENCE if you will, of what happens when you choose to destroy such a beautiful thing and replace it with money and a slave.

Slaves HATE their “masters” and while I don’t hate women, I do HATE most of them. I HATE the self-entitlement attitudes that prevail amongst most of the female population. I hate the almost complete lack of empathy, and intelligence of the same. I hate that women like this are the ones that for the most part are going to be the ones that are raising the next “crop” of Male slaves.

Women in general, I hold in the utmost contempt, scorn and disgust. I will fuck you, I will talk to you, and most certainly I will use you for everything that you are worth and then discard you like garbage. Just as I was. It isn’t right, nor is it fair I agree. However it is what it is, and it exists because it was created.

-Strength and Honor-

Maybe its the “class” that I live in, or maybe my perspectives have been skewed, however I have seen this process occur time and time again and the end result is that its DESTROYING the very society that I live within.

Forsaken

August 20th, 2007 August 20th, 2007
Posted in Male Double Standards, Misandry in Society
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aaronbabies.jpg My name is Abaddon, and I am Forsaken. To those that don’t know me very well, I am 26 years old and I am the father of 2 children, both of which I haven’t seen for the latter part of 2 years now. To all of the feminists out there, I current owe 0.00$ in “child support”. In a Matriarchy, the MONEY gets paid first I suppose, no matter what the cost in human suffering, or the reduction of an individuals rights, or faith in Humanity. I owe nothing to the Matriarchy nor will I ever, which I suppose is the goal. To reduce a Man into slavery in his prime years of “production” while “supporting” his “children”, is the purpose of this idiotic scheme. I am correct am I not you useful idiots?

This isn’t the point of my blog. I am a human, and as a human I know that there are dreams and then there’s the reality that we all try to escape from in some way. I choose alcohol, some choose video games, some escape with books(I do as well) while others simply try to rationalize why they are the way they are. I am sure there are many other ways to do so however I don’t have the time to list them.

I have a little brother, and he and I are very similar yet completely different. However we work together at the same company. My brother has 2 children as well, with his wife. I dont begrudge them anything, however it struck me today. The EUREKA if you will! It has struck me before, however today is the day for writing I suppose. To get to the proverbial meat of the matter, I watched my little brother after we got off of a grueling day of work (9-10 hrs of moving furniture, with no lunch), jump out of the car and give his youngest son a huge hug and kiss. I love my Nephews, for they are of my line, and I would have done the same, however that in my view that is unseemly, I merely remained in the background and made sure they weren’t doing things like messing with fires, and other things. In ending making sure they were ok. Thats my job as an Uncle.

In that moment of Space and Time, “I” a Man that has moved furniture at -50 to support his children whether they were there or not, a Man that has lived in an artic area for his ENTIRE natural life, broke down in TEARS. I finally realized, that I will NEVER be able to do that. I will NEVER be able to give MY children a hug and a kiss and tell them that I am HOME. I will NEVER see them on this side of Life.

This is coming from a Man that was a part of their Life for 5 FUCKING years! I slaved for them, I spent ALL the time that I could with them, I changed their diapers, I fed them with my money and my hand, I worked my ass to the fucking BONE for them. When that wasnt good enough, I PAID ALL MY CHILD SUPPORT BITCHES! This isnt some Maury show contestant, that danced for glory when he found out he wasnt the FATHER. I would add a great FUCK YOU to the people that say they(my children) will be back for daddy in awhile. There is nothing that will be able to replace what has been TAKEN away from me.

To all the feminists that have CREATED this situation, you have inspired the complete HATRED of a Man who has sacrificed and given more for Women than you will ever know. Your ideology has broken many Men, however I remain here, I stand alone in a place that many even refuse to live. You come to me with the standards and crowns of Broken Men, yet I stand here ALONE, and waiting for a response.

I wouldnt piss on you if you were on fire. You are the IDIOTS, that started this whole mess. DO YOU TRULY THINK YOU’RE INDEPENDENT? Try looking up the meaning of the word before you speak it?

I will meet you in the darkness, and that I think is all you deserve. To live with yourselves. What a sordid and saddening bunch of whores you are.

To the women that will speak for me, I DONT CARE, you are worthless, your word is and has been broken, and without honor you are nothing.

-Strength and Honor-